Dating to save
We took personality tests, answered over 300 dating-related questions and downloaded apps for all the sites that offered them.
(Read Real Stories From People Who ‘Fell Off Pedestals’) The Bible says that falling in love can be like playing with fire, so it matters that we practice seeing clearly, even as our hearts are running wild! If you have never dated, what are you like around the people you fancy? Do you find it easy to be yourself, or do you find that you become someone else? How would you describe your previous relationships?
Being attracted to someone will always make us act a little as though we’re wearing a pair of rose-tinted glasses: we will see things in slightly distorted ways. So that you can approach your (next) relationship differently, in a way that allows you to build something together.
But there’s a difference between being blind to someone’s faults in the early days of infatuation and adopting a blinkered approach to every new relationship. Imagine if we didn’t just unintentionally expect someone to come and give us everything we wanted in a relationship, but we intentionally focussed on building something good together, examining how we could be part of that.
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If you’re looking for a dating site with great free features, Ok Cupid is our choice for best value because you can message matches without paying a subscription fee.